{"id":103,"date":"2015-05-31T23:43:06","date_gmt":"2015-06-01T03:43:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/?p=103"},"modified":"2015-05-31T23:43:06","modified_gmt":"2015-06-01T03:43:06","slug":"tender-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/bestwork\/tender-years\/","title":{"rendered":"Tender Years"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had the distinct pleasure last week of hosting Joe Lambert and Brooke Hessler from the <a href=\"http:\/\/storycenter.org\/\">Center for Digital Storytelling<\/a> for a workshop at Kenyon. I believed that I was going in as the on-site tech support guy, so I didn&#8217;t think I was going to make a story. See,\u00a0 I was going to be helpful to other people, and watch Joe and Brooke to really learn how to facilitate a story circle.<\/p>\n<p>Concetta (who had been in our 2012 workshop), said that was sad, because I&#8217;m a good storyteller. (Which is not, to be honest, something I&#8217;d gone into this workshop considering.) And there was a ripple of agreement in the room, that my colleagues wanted me with them as a participant. And Joe said &#8220;no free riders.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So I started wracking my brain for a story to tell.<\/p>\n<p>The penny dropped when, during another person&#8217;s turn in the story circle, Joe pointed out that writing a letter to someone can be a great storytelling prompt. I started thinking about people I&#8217;d like to talk to, people I might owe a thank-you note or an explanation.<\/p>\n<p>I remembered that <a href=\"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/text\/we-can-dance-neath-the-carnival-lights\/\">I have a story which recently eluded telling<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And here&#8217;s another way to tell it.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"474\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9Z14a3PFa1c?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>From a storytelling perspective, shifting the audience made all the difference in the world. By making it a piece for Melanie, instead of for &#8220;the world&#8221;, clarifying an in-joke became sharing an anecdote. And technically, relating the story out loud, and getting feedback from a room of supportive colleagues, helped me find a lot of the connective tissue which I didn&#8217;t find alone with my keyboard.<\/p>\n<p>So thank you, my Kenyon and CDS colleagues (and my wife, who saw a rough cut), for sharing your courage, for your aesthetic input, and for sharing this story with me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had the distinct pleasure last week of hosting Joe Lambert and Brooke Hessler from the Center for Digital Storytelling for a workshop at Kenyon. I believed that I was going in as the on-site tech support guy, so I didn&#8217;t think I was going to make a story. See,\u00a0 I was going to be &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/bestwork\/tender-years\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Tender Years<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[8,15,11,16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bestwork","category-biographical","category-ds106-2","category-video"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p53vXx-1F","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=103"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":104,"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions\/104"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/josephmurphy.name\/ds106\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}